fuel pump - my first guess... but like I said I haven't really looked at it yet
timing belt - suggestion someone made, and it might be the case.. mileage is about right, ~60k miles, and she said it sounded like a belt or something up there was making some kind of noise for 3 weeks or so.. I could never pick it out though. Really hoping it wasn't the belt.. if it was, bye bye woo.
ECM - First thing I'm going to try is resetting it as has been suggested here.. if resetting gets me nothing I'll check for fuel spark, and if they're both good.. guess that leave's the belt

After it shut down, it would crank as long as I held it, definetly wasn't a battery issue, would never catch though
Anything else it could be? And how can I check the timing belt? Only t-belt I've ever dealt with was on my friend's 2.5 Caravan, I don't know how they differ (or don't) car to car.. just a cover to remove, and if the belt is no more, then
